But what to do if the one being courted is the one who chose to date exclusively. Because that is the only way for the one being courted to signify that s/he is willing to be just be with that one person, but because of some reason is not ready to get into a relationship yet.
Whatever that reason may be is moot and academic. But the issue is, what is the point of saying "we're dating exclusively, but hindi kami" when nobody can enter the relationship because it's already closed?
What? You're waiting for someone better to come along? And being courted is bait? Oh hell's wrath! Could that be it?
No? Then stop playing games. Dive into it before love decides to leave. And you will be left with nothing, but ash...you don't want to go there.
Oh? Afraid of being pressured into doing something you are not ready for if ever you say "Yes" to him/her?
A true lover does not force a partner. That my dear is a whole different game called: seduction. One that is far far more interesting than courtship. And one that can be made absent in the relationship if one partner chooses to. For there are two main reasons to get into a relationship: mating or companionship. If you get both, then you are rich beyond words.
Rumination 01
11 years ago
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